-[ KCUBe . k³ ]-



What you don't know about marriage (TED Talks)

(1 comments)

I've been a huge fan of TED and from time to time, I'll come across very interesting talks that I'll bug everyone I know to watch. It is usually historical, technology or socioeconomic related but I think this is the first time I actually paid attention to something else.
The topic: What you don't know about marriage by Jenny McCarthy


Very intriguing. :)


Google thinks I'm 10 years older than what I am

(3 comments)


Google you bastard. Call me an old fart. :(


My 1st Chinese New Year (after 7 years)

(0 comments)

The last time I was in Malaysia during the Chinese New Year (CNY) period was exactly 5 years ago. The last time I actually celebrated CNY? Seven Years ago.
It's been awhile.
There is a reason why my family has not celebrated CNY for 7 years but that's a story for another time. Instead, I will just do a picture summary roughly what I did in my 2 weeks in Malaysia.
Firstly, I came back for this cutie.
Had home made yeesang.
Flew to Penang to see all my relatives.
Visited my grandparents to pay my respects.
Rekindled my childhood memories in Penang.
Celebrated my birthday for the first time in Malaysia.
Spent much needed quality time with my brothers.
Which also consequently meant eating loads of road side food.
Threw away bits and pieces of my childhood.
 In the process of doing that, remembered a few things about my childhood that I almost forgot about.
(I need to blog about this)
And finally, attended my first one-year-old birthday party.

Funnily, when I was going through all the pictures I took throughout this trip, I realised mostly were of family and I never took many with my friends even though I met up with quite a few of them. Probably shows how much time I spent with my family on this impromptu trip.

Ok, note to myself. Take more pictures of friends. :)


I weep for some of my fellow humans

(0 comments)

I came across this twitter feed and looking at the re-tweets, I honestly feel ashamed. 

They are, of course, referring to the whole of Wikipedia looking like this:
Wikipedia (and most sites for that matter) is protesting SOPA and while I'm not gonna touch on that topic since that warrants a whole novel, I find the total ignorance of the people complaining about Wikipedia being "blacked out" absolutely incredulous. I'm obviously in the minority being a total geek-head and knew about this SOPA stuff months before but putting that aside, I find it really sad that there is a significant amount of a certain generation that relies too much on the internet for everything. All you have to do is just scroll through the feed and you get a feeling why they are frustrated (Hint: education related) and to top it off, they don't even make an effort to find out what SOPA is.

I am probably gonna sound like an old man saying this, but day by day, I look at some of the younger generation and I sometimes wonder what will happen to humanity's future. 


Musings of the first week of 2012

(0 comments)

I use to make resolutions at the start of the year but about 2 years ago, I made a conscious decision to not make any because like homework, once I know I have to do it, I'll more than likely avoid doing it. I'm a rebel at heart. :)

Funnily enough, it has been working out for me so far and I realised that by not making resolutions and putting unnecessary expectations/pressure on myself to fulfill them, I actually enjoy life way much more. Life is so much more enjoyable when things are simpler. 2012 will be the same and I'll be making no resolutions and just going through the year on an ad-hoc basis.

So,  it's been 11 days into the year and here are some of my thoughts.

Firstly, summer has been a lil colder than usual. Not that I'm complaining much about the cold but it is usually preceded by a bout of rain and it some extreme cases, hail.
Kinda sucks because the rain has an annoying tendency to show itself on weekends and destroy all weekend outdoor plans.

On days when the weather is beautiful, I've been trying to ease myself into an active lifestyle slowly after abandoning it for 2 months. One of the few things I'm trying to do is get myself running/jogging again and it's great that I now live in a new place where there are plenty of new routes I can take. I find myself just trying a different route every time just to explore the area and stumble into interesting things: I.e. This temple with a giant golden statue in the middle of no where.
Speaking about living in a new place, I can actually see the sun rise/set from my place and I now make it a habit to try and enjoy it everyday when I can. Somehow, seeing the sun appear/disappear over the horizon is very soothing to the soul.

Like I said, the simple things in life. :)


One of the things I'll tell my younger self

(0 comments)

I was doing my usual daily catch up with news, random stuff on the internet, etc when I came across this interesting comment. It's basically a guy giving some advice to a current MIT student. It reads:-

Alright, sorry about the delay. I was too busy celebrating the New Year. ;) I hope you're still checking in on this account.
Anyway, I think I have a bit of a unique perspective. I've seen MIT admissions from the perspective of the applicant, a student, a teacher, and now as an alumnus conducting interviews of prospective students. The fact that you mentioned MIT specifically really made me feel like I should take the time to produce a good response!
I wanted to start by writing out standard admissions advice (e.g. no one thing like SAT scores will keep you from being admitted, etc.). While all that is true, the problem you're dealing with is so much bigger than that. The problem you're coming up against is one I've seen so many of my fellow students encounter. If I could set up a wavy-fade flashback, I'd show you my freshman year.
I moved into one of the dorms at MIT thinking I was hot shit. I had, after all, just gotten into MIT. And beyond that, I had tested out of the freshman calculus and physics classes, meaning that I was able to start math "a year" ahead in differential equations and start with the advanced version of the physics 2 class we have. Registration went by easy enough and I was pleased with my decisions.
Term rolled in and I was getting crushed. I wasn't the greatest student in high school, and whenever I got poor grades I would explain them away by saying I just didn't care or I was too busy or too unmotivated or (more often than not) just cared about something else. It didn't help that I had good test performance which fed my ego and let me think I was smarter than everyone else, just relatively unmotivated. I had grossly underestimated MIT, and was left feeling so dumb.
I had the fortune of living next to a bright guy, R. R. was an advanced student, to say the least. He was a sophomore, but was already taking the most advanced graduate math classes. He came into MIT and tested out of calculus, multivariable calculus, differential equations, linear algebra, real analysis (notoriously the most difficult math class at MIT), and a slew of other math courses. And to top it all off, he was attractive, engaging, sociable, and generally had no faults that would make him mortal.
I suffered through half a semester of differential equations before my pride let me go to R. for help. And sure enough, he took my textbook for a night to review the material (he couldn't remember it all from third grade), and then he walked me through my difficulties and coached me. I ended up pulling a B+ at the end of a semester and avoiding that train wreck. The thing is, nothing he taught me involved raw brainpower. The more I learned the more I realized that the bulk of his intelligence and his performance just came from study and practice, and that the had amassed a large artillery of intellectual and mathematical tools that he had learned and trained to call upon. He showed me some of those tools, but what I really ended up learning was how to go about finding, building, and refining my own set of cognitive tools. I admired R., and I looked up to him, and while I doubt I will ever compete with his genius, I recognize that it's because of a relative lack of my conviction and an excess of his, not some accident of genetics.
It's easy to trick ourselves into thinking that "being smart" is what determines our performance. In so many ways, it's the easiest possible explanation because it demands so little of us and immediately explains away our failings. You are facing this tension without recognizing it. You are blaming your intelligence in the first two paragraphs but you undermine yourself by saying you received good grades you didn't deserve. You recognize your lack of motivation as a factor in your lack of extracurricular activities but not in your SAT scores (fun fact: the variable that correlates most strongly to SAT performance is hours of studying for the SATs). Your very last statement could just as well apply to your entire post:
But none of this has to do with my intelligence; I'm just rambling.
You got A's because you studied or because the classes were easy. You got a B probably because you were so used to understanding things that you didn't know how to deal with something that didn't come so easily. I'm guessing that early on you built the cognitive and intellectual tools to rapidly acquire and process new information, but that you've relied on those tools so much you never really developed a good set of tools for what to do when those failed. This is what happened to me, but I didn't figure it out until after I got crushed by my first semester of college. I need to ask you, has anyone ever taken the time to teach you how to study? And separately, have you learned how to study on your own in the absence of a teacher or curriculum? These are the most valuable tools you can acquire because they are the tools you will use to develop more powerful and more insightful tools. It only snowballs from there until you become like R.
MIT has an almost 97% graduation rate. That means that most of the people who get in, get through. Do you know what separates the 3% that didn't from the rest that do? I do. I've seen it so many times, and it almost happened to me. Very few people get through four years of MIT with such piss-poor performance that they don't graduate. In fact, I can't think of a single one off the top of my head. People fail to graduate from MIT because they come in, encounter problems that are harder than anything they've had to do before, and not knowing how to look for help or how to go about wrestling those problems, burn out. The students that are successful look at that challenge, wrestle with feelings of inadequacy and stupidity, and begin to take steps hiking that mountain, knowing that bruised pride is a small price to pay for getting to see the view from the top. They ask for help, they acknowledge their inadequacies. They don't blame their lack of intelligence, they blame their lack of motivation. I was lucky that I had someone to show me how to look for that motivation, and I'm hoping that I can be that person for you in some small capacity over the Internet. I was able to recover from my freshman year and go on to be very successful in my studies, even serving as a TA for my fellow students. When I was a senior, I would sit down with the freshmen in my dorm and show them the same things that had been shown to me, and I would watch them struggle with the same feelings, and overcome them. By the time I graduated MIT, I had become the person I looked up to when I first got in.
You're so young, way too young to be worried about not being smart enough. Until you're so old you start going senile, you have the opportunity to make yourself "smarter." And I put that in quotes because "smart" is really just a way of saying "has invested so much time and sweat that you make it look effortless." You feel like you are burnt out or that you are on the verge of burning out, but in reality you are on the verge of deciding whether or not you will burn out. It's scary to acknowledge that it's a decision because it puts the onus on you to to do something about it, but it's empowering because it means there is something you can do about it.
So do it.

Very very true.

I'm currently in a fortunate position in my life/career and people always ask me how I do it. There are many factors (luck also being part of it) but one of the main things I harp on is the amount of sacrifices I had to do when I was in university. There were numerous points of time in my university days where I honestly thought I should be dropping out but thanks to my tremendous closeted ego, I always persevered to find a solution to my problems and in that course of perseverance, I also found out a lot about myself, my emotions, my abilities, etc. When I finally completed my course, it dawned on me that university is not about the degree or knowledge itself but about learning to learn, adapt, solve problems and work with people.

I'll be forwarding this post in the future to anyone who asks me about university life. :)


In 55 years

(0 comments)

This is what a 5 MB drive looked like (Hint: weighs over a ton)

In September 1956 IBM launched the 305 RAMAC, the first computer with a hard disk drive (HDD).

And 55 years later, this is what a 5 GB drive looks like:-


We certainly do live in interesting times.


The past 15 months (2011)

(3 comments)

Here is some of the most interesting things that happened in my life (in no particular order) for the past 15 months.

Spent some quality time my brother after not seeing him for 2 years
Did karaoke for the first time of my life
Rekindled my love for going for a run in parks
Found and finally settled on an airlines to travel with
Tried learning/brushing up on my mandarin
Constantly picking up multitude of injuries from various sports
Went bush walking/hiking multiple times
Did my small bit for the future
Left my job after 3 years in it.
Found how dangerously addictive, easy and cheap to buy books from Amazon
:)
Experienced a foggy sunny afternoon day
Spent many hours with this baby
Found an unexpected love for rooftop bars
Fell in love with Australia's natural beauty (bush walking/hiking)
Dined in the best restaurant (and expensive!) in my life so far
Traveled more times in a year than any other (6 times)
Fulfilled my lifelong inner geek dream of going on a Silicon Valley tour
Found a bachelor pad with a superbly fantastic view
Bought the most furniture I ever owned in my life (and assembled it myself)
Think Marina Bay Sands is the most awesome structure I visited so far
Went to Gold Coast for the first time
Also got mugged for the first time and did a stupid thing of fighting back 
(Though, I did get all my stuff back)
Went to nearly all the small beaches in Melbourne
Attended a multitude of weddings of friends
...and also a funeral.
Did 4 Half-marathons but still not doing it under 2 hours. :(
Played golf twice and finally understood why is it so addictive (to old people)
Attended various graduations and always come away from it feeling like I should study again
Hiked the most grueling trek but also the most beautiful I've seen so far
Became an Uncle. <3

Celebrated New Year in a very interesting fashion

 
Cut my hair extremely short for the first time since I was 10.
Ate the most weirdest burger (Bacon and cheese wrapped in 2 chicken patties) in my life
 Re-kindled my childhood memories

 There you have it. Bring on 2012 which I think is going to be even interesting. :)


About me

What am i doing?



Last posts

Archives


ATOM 0.3